I have not been blogging that much as i am like currently very busy and lethargic... Oh well what to do... Nothing fun has happen to me except that my classmates, Alvin, Yuan Zheng, WInnie, Shu Cheng, Syahrom, Yi Hang, Suat Ting, Xiao Fang, Lit Yong and me are planning to have a barbecue on the 17th September at East Coast park... I cant wait for the event as there will be BBQ chicken, hotdog, crabmeat, satay and otah!!! YUMMMMYYY!!! Especially the chicken which will be marinated by
ME Confirm delicious... hahah... dream on khafian...

Hmmmm... Should i plan an outing to Jurong Swimming Pool???? I want to organize cos i like MISS all of my friends and i will really be happy if all of my friends are like wat they used to whose faces are full of laughter and full of vibrancy which can clearly clear all the cloudy clouds!!!

When in a boy-girl relationship, first of all they should know all about the "DOs" and Donts" rules... I am sure that all the couples out there know about the rules and therefore i wont touch on the matter... I myself have not experience any boy-girl relationship and therefore i am not really qualified to say what i want to say and therefore i have decided to put my answers in my questions and these questions are made by my observations of all my friends who are in a relationship... Sadly, only 1 couple from all my friends which i find most perfect to me... Anyway, these are the questions:

1. Do u trust your girlfriend/ boyfriend with all of your heart?
2. Will you let a 3rd party to interrupt your relationship and use that as a weakness or will you use it as a weapon in your relationship?
3. When you feel that you have been neglecting your girlfriend/boyfriend, what will you do?
4. What kind of a relationship are you built upon?
5. When it comes to Valentine's, Birthday and Anniversay Day, will you expect anything grand and elegant from your boyfriend/girlfriend?
6. When your boyfriend/girlfriend has hurt you in anyway, what action will you use to solve your dispute; violent or non-violent?

• Qn No: 1

If your answer is YES : Very Good... Relationship will function smoothfully as trust is very important in every relationship... Without trust, there will be no love...


If your answer is NO : Bad... Trust is not available in the relationship... Each of them are in doubts of their partner whereabouts and mind start to think negatively when they get wind that their partner are out with a friend who is either a girl or boy...


• Qn No: 2

If your answer is No and use that as a STRENGTH: Your relationship is going on strong and will not be afraid of any 3rd party involvement when you totally trust your partner's heart and using the enemy as a strength is a good way to show that their involvement will only make your love for your partner even stronger...


If your answer is YES and use not that as a STRENGTH: Beware of your relationship as it is like on the edge of a knife, a slip and your relationship will fail... Trust is evidently not in your relationship...


• Qn No: 3

If your answer is TALK IT OUT : It is a good way to clear matter with your partner on the reason why you are currently neglecting her/him and thus both of them will work out a solution to their problem... This is a very old-fasion manner which are rarely used by couples nowadays but to me, it is the most efficient... A very good couple will do this method and thus this will cause their relationship to grow even stronger as they are now ready to fight all obstacles...


If your answer is HECK CARE, WHATEVER : Very bad and a huge minus in a relationship... Both are very ego and neither one of them want to talk or to even bother to apologize and both are waiting for each other to make a move... Very bad couple and this type of relationship will not last long...


• Qn No: 4

If your answer is YES : Bad...Your partner is greedy and is not interested in your love for her; only interested for your wealth...


If your answer is No : Excellent... Your heart is pure and you feel that gifts which come right from the heart worth more than all treasures in the world...


• Qn No: 5



If your answer is VIOLENT : Bad... This shows that you have no passionate and care for your partner and this will cause trouble in one's relationship...


If your answer is NON-VIOLENT : Superb... Relationship is going on strong... Lavish your loved ones with kind words will always work through your partner...

The questions above and the answers given are all from my points of views and it is what i gather from my observation with all the couples nowadays and i would like to say sorry if my words here have hurt anyone feelings... Please tag your comments...

I do not know why i can understand what my friends who are in a relationship are going through... Is it because i am a very emotional person and that is why i am able to feel what my friends are feeling??? This is the question that usually flash immediately to my head... I like to see my friends to be success in their relationship and especially if it were to be from my Ohana... Those who read my blog will know... But just in case, these are the names of those in my Ohana which means family in Hawaiian... The reason why is because these special friends of mine are like brothers and sisters i will never have... Hang giap, Kc,Brenda, Kamal, Tauhid, Fairuzi, Nadiah, Grace, Jia yin, Sufian, Kamal, Habeebah and Saidil...

My Ohana will marry first and i will be the last one to marry...hahah... Cos no girl will wants me...haha... so tauhid, kc, fairuzi, hang giap,kamal and saidil will get to marry first and dun forget to invite me your wedding...Confirm they will get a girl first but Hang giap and Tauhid say that i will get first before them and i say the opposite... We will just see who get a girl first...hahah... i tink i am gonna be crazee... heheh... that is me... I wonder what it will be like when we are all having our own families... Will we still be in contact??? I hope i can still keep in touch with my ohana...

Love... The most mysterious force ever on this Earth and no scholar can ever dwell deep enough to unlock the true mystery of Love... Love is truly indeed a force that should not be reckon with as it can be either a friend or a foe... The reason why i said that is because Love can make guys go crazy and they will go to any extend in order to attract girls and they will do it no matter how difficult it is... Love can be a friend when it helps to solve dispute with family, friends and with your girlfriend or boyfriend... But Love too can be a foe when Love will cause the other party to be hurt due to certain reasons like " i like this girl and there is another guy who also likes this girl" and when this happen, Love will make both guys go crazy and to become violent... BUT I did not feel that Love is evil as Love will always be there for you whenever you are in darkness...

1. Love for your family will make you more appreciative of them and will do anything to bring up the name of our family.




2. Love for your girlfriend or boyfriend will make your relationship stronger and will not allow any negative vibes destroy your love circle and this will only happen if it is really TRUE LOVE. I rarely see couples nowadays who are truly in love with each other for the other's love but i do witness one and those who read my blog should know who i am talking about. These friend of mine are truly made for each other and they are truly a pure couple to me who did not build relationship with lies but with the pureness of their heart...




3. Caring for your friends and to always be there whenever they need help... Friends like that are worth to keep as they care for one's feelings and i am lucky to have friends who show much care and concern for me especially about my weight problem... These type of friends are truly the Forces of Good...

These are some of my observations and i will always use my motto if i want to go into a relationship "Love Can Touch Us One Time And Last For A Last Time". I just hope that one day, powerful leaders from all over the wrold will use use some love and compassion to rule as this is the only non-violent way to not to have any conflict.

I have quite a boring time at school today... The school hire some dunno what organization to teach us leadership skills and i was like nagging and complaining away as i like dun like this kind of event as it is such a waste of time for me... But nevertheless, i love it as i can get to know my classmates even more through this programme; that is the positive side... Hmmm... But i miss my entire lesson on my Electrical Principle(EP) and i was like kinda depressed that i did not study as i kinda love to study ever since i am in ITE... I wonder why...

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What is happening to the WORLD?? It hs suffer much destruction and yet not even one organization has come up and to bravely smack the BUSHright in his face for supporting Israel's CRUEL AND INHUMANE action towards the Lebanon Citizens... To me, PBB and UN are like powerless in wanting to send assistance as both the UN and PBB are like under USA and they can't do anything without that IDIOT Bush... Prices are increasing and it is all because of the increase in the price of oil... Because of the price of oil increase, all items are also increase and things are getting so expensive and yet the USA did not do anything and kept insisting that Israel has every right to do so until Hesbollah return the Israel's soldiers and if i can have an opportunity i would like to ask this question to bush: Are There Any Evidence That Hesbollah has Indeed Capture Two of Israel Soldiers And Are There Sufficient Evidences And Resources To Back Israel's Invasion On Middle-East???

I doubt Bush or Israel will give a direct answer but instead, he will beat around the bush like how he did when the invasion of iraq begin... Until now, there is no evidence that Iraq has possess and Weapons Of Mass Destruction that was informed by Bush to the world and can we not see it clearly that there is sufficiently lack of evidence and the only thing that make USA and Israel to attack the Middle- East is due to the oil as Middle-East are blessed with abundant of oil supplies and both the Israel and USA are greedy and to me, they are the REAL TERRORISTS... They invade other countries for resources and i did not anyhow give my views... I actually analyse the current situation and i refer to all of my encyclopedias... The only way peace can ever return to this earth if BUSH would just not be the President of USA...